ch.195 何謂聰明人？

Read from the newspaper today regarding "definition of a smart person", well, let's see..

一、儲蓄友誼，朋友是生命中不能缺少的；
yes, i do treasure my gd friends but on the other hand, i do find that I am losing lots of friends. Losing as in we are keeping a distance from each other now. Those from highschool, with different life experience after graduation, everyone changed. Still friends but the feeling has changed. Those whom i wasn't too close with, some now became a gd frd of mine.

3 years of learning beside Eddie, i realized how important friends are. All built up from friednship, friendship also builds up business. I really do cherrish my friends, spending time with jen, wil, how, mir, suz r gd times. i could spend all my time with them (hopefully they think the same way) but some, i feel reluctant.

　　二、學會放手，特別是在處理感情問題上；
o yes. 1 yr already and i finally let go the rest of my 10%. yes, being able to let go your feeling is wht a smart person should do.... i m stupid on that.

　　三、播種善良，幫助比你苦、比你難過的人；
this i try.... however, i figured i lied without me knowing it sometimes. it's horrible. do i wanna make things look gd? make myself look gd? or wht? why do i lied so damn often without knowing?

I tend to help. I am a helper from the concludsion of "9 ying yan gak".

　　四、學懂音樂、攝影或收藏；
i m blessed to be born with musical talent. at least i think i can dance to the beat! hehe.. and i used to collect erasers wheni was young. haha. I was going to learn photography from francis, but he is too busy with his girl, argh..

　　五、避開兩種苦：得不到之苦和鍾情之苦；
得不到之苦 - haha. how to 避開? 避開 is to not think about it, i guess. i m not as logic as jen, i m emo. to stay away from these two is tough for me.
鍾情之苦 - haha. i think at this period, s+e still got me into this. when will i get out from here?

　　六、學會承受苦痛和煩惱；
o yes, that i learn and i m good. I m "miss positive" here.

　　七、愛護家庭；
yes,i love my family... eventho with all the mess. actually... i m lying again. i m not satisfy about my family. they r all gd but argh.. just some r fake..it's hard to say, i guess we r too civilized .. argh...

　　八、熱愛工作；
try hard.

　　九、勤於學習，每年最好至少讀五十本書；
this i have to set up my goals. i bought lots of books.... must read!!!!!!

　　十、享受運動和大自然。
yes, sports for me! joined physical...n i must run! run, jan, run!